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*상황-동료 직원의 생일 초대로인한 외박
*반사적 생각-다음날 미안한 마음에 집으로 들어와 자초지경을 설명하였으나
             도무지 이해못하고 바가지를 긁어 집을나옴
*인지오류-내가 죄를졌나 아니면 사고를 쳤나 도대체 메일일어난 일도 아니고
          어쩌다 한번 그런상황인데 너무 심한것아닌가 싶어슴
*감정-당황스럽고 화가나 리모컨를 던저 박살냄
*반로적 질문-내가 충분히 설명을 했을까 아니면 나를 걱정하는 마음에서 말를 했을
             수도인는데 너무 부정적인 생각만 한게 아닌가
*타당한 생각-당연히 동료의 생일이라 참석을 하였고 밥과술를 겸하니고 놀다보니
             전철 막차시간도 지나고 해서 미안한 마음은 들었지만 갈수가 없었슴
*그이후론 전화를 걸어 설명을 충분히하고 가능하면 외박은 없슴